It was great.
It was so great that I wanted to do it again.
I'm not saying that I got married for the gifts but that was a really sweet perk of my nuptials.
Then we had a baby and I didn't get a lot of gifts but whatever.
Then I graduated from college and had more parties with more Adam-centered gifts.
Throughout these processes of receiving gifts, the voice of my mother continued to resonate in my head. (Hearing mom's voice isn't an uncommon event. It is more of a daily occurrence and some of the time it is a good thing.)
Mom always taught me to write hand written thank you notes to people. Because at 18, I was way smarter than my mom, I asked why I couldn't just make a form letter of thanks and mail it out to everyone. Efficient right? She didn't go for it. She said that hand written notes were the way to go so I hand wrote thank you notes to everyone. Every high school graduation gift, every wedding gift, every baby shower gift and every college graduation gift was followed up by a hand written thank you note.
My strategy today as a working professional is no different. People need hand written thank you notes. It doesn't matter what industry you're in. Non-profits should thank their donors for giving money. Salesmen should thank customers for spending money with them. Employees should thank their bosses for the opportunity to work and serve people. Bosses should thank their employees for faithfully serving the company or organization.
Everyone needs a thank you note.
I write two different kinds of thank you notes to our donors, supporters and team members. The majority of notes I write are simple, hand written thank you notes. Some people (like the 18 year old version of me) thinks that this is an inefficient way of spending time, other people hate the way their hand writing looks, and still others simply think that the person on the receiving end doesn't really care whether the note is hand written or not.
In my experience:
- Hand written notes are warm and personal not cold and corporate. Who would you rather do business with? Would you prefer a salesmen that talks to you by name and seeks out ways to take care of your needs or a vague, one-size fits all on-line order form?
- Hand written notes don't take a lot of time. My notes are typically three to four sentences conveying my appreciation for the gift, how I intend to use the gift, and an offer to be of service to the donor in the future. I don't write a novel, I keep it short and sweet. I typically do not include the size or value of the gift (i.e. thanks for your $50 donation). These cards do not suffice for purposes of tax write offs. They are specifically to convey appreciation.
- Hand written notes are not expensive. I usually buy about 250, custom printed cards each year. It runs me about $100. My cards are simple. They are on white card-stock paper with our logo on the front. Inside they are blank and thus a canvas for me to express my appreciation. They measure about 5.5" wide and 4.25" tall when folded.
- Your handwriting makes it unique. Obviously you'll need to write legibly. Outside of that, by your handwriting you have communicated to the donor that you personally sat down and took the time to hand write a card of thanks. That shows appreciation.
Here's a copy of the form letter that I use (click the image to enlarge it):
I included the line numbers for this blog post so that you can see how I space everything. I don't print a document with line numbers.
You'll notice that it is on company letter head with contact information.
I have the date of the letter.
I include the mailing address of the donor.
I use a simple "To whom it may concern" salutation.
I keep it short. I thank the company for their donation and I'm specific to list the monetary value of the gift.
I offer to be of further assistance to the agency and then I close by listing my name and position with the agency. I print this and sign it in blue ink and mail it to the donor.
Is it cold and impersonal, yes. Does the IRS care? No.
I fit the thank you note to the need of the donor. 90% of my notes are hand written. 10% of our gifts are corporate or from an estate that require a letter like this.
So there you go! A quick guide to professional thank you notes!